 I've
had a number of guys write in saying, "I've been
trying Adult Friend Finder, but I can't get women
to respond to me! What's your secret?"
First
of all, I never sent e-mails to very attractive women
because I suspect that they were created by the staff
at Adult Friend Finder.
Second:
be pleasant, professional, and warm in your e-mails.
This is the number one mistake. Don't come across
as a pervert, because even though these women only
want one thing, they are still scared of meeting a
complete stranger for sex. Think about it from their
perspective...they're just asking for trouble.
In
my e-mails, I suggested meeting somewhere benign,
like a coffee shop or a nice bar. Public places are
safe in their eyes, and they're much more likely to
take you up on it. (By the way, you've gotta get the
Ross
Jeffries book on picking up women, it's
a must-have bible for this mission. Geez, I can't
believe i've never mentioned this before).
Also,
send them a picture of you wearing something neat
and conservative. No need to send suggestive photos...they
know you're a GUY, so you don't to show them how horny
you are!
You
want to send out a lot of e-mails, because you're
going to have to anticipate a low response rate. The
catch here is that you really need to taylor them
to each woman. Even though they're just looking for
sex, make them feel as though you want to be with
THEM. Be sure to compliment them! Women love knowing
that you notice all the trouble they went through
to look good!
Here's
an example of an e-mail I sent that got a response
(the woman in San Jose). This e-mail was the ringer
because it turned out that she fancies herself a worldly,
sophisticated, sexy woman.
You
can also read more tips at: Zen-tips.info
"Hi
(Tricia),
My
name is Steven and I saw your ad. First of all, I
love the dress you have on in the photo. (you
know she's going to keep reading...you've just complimented
her!) I used to have a professor in college
who wore the same Latino style...it's a perfect balance
between sexy and smart. My professor was from Salvadore,
and she taught a wonderful class on Brazilian poetry.
Anyway,
you really caught my eye because of that dress. It's
so rare to see someone who understands how to dress
in that style, and I should add that you wear it so
well! You've intrigued me now...I want to know what
your other tastes are. Have you been to Brazil, are
you familiar with the dances, Ernesto Nazareth?
I
think we should meet somewhere to see if we're on
the same page. Oh, about me...I'm an investment banker
in the city. I have a tremendous collection of classical
Brazilian music, I salsa, scuba-dive, read Latino
poetry, and love good wine.
Hope
to hear from you soon!
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