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Once
I was a member, I began cruising through the listings
(there are 39724 women in California...we must live
in a very horny state).
 The
thumbnail photos don't tell you very much, probably
for the sake of anonymity. Here's an example of one:
Some
of the listings look like they may have been created
by the staff at Adult Friend Finder. I mean, what's
the chance that a really HOT woman needs random sex
with strangers? Keep that in mind, because most of
those hotties won't be replying to your e-mails!
But
many listings are clearly valid. You'll see VERY overweight
women, women starting to age, women who have average
looks but are just plain wild, and lots of women who
are probably in the country illegally.
Ok,
so let me jump to the point. I just got back from
a "date" with a woman in San Jose (who's
photo I'm not putting up here cause she'd freak if
she saw it). She is 57, which is 25 years my senior.
She wasn't bad looking, but she was no spring chicken.
She
was very cautious about our meeting, as you may imagine.
After all, she's got grown kids and here she is fucking
strangers for the thrill of it in her condo in San
Jose!
We
met at a restaurant first. We talked a bit and I'm
sure she was just sizing me up, making sure I wasn't
a pyscho killer or the hunchback of Notre Dame. (side
note: I'm about 20 pounds over weight, but I'm neat
and polite...not a lady killer but a strong average).
At
some point I passed her test and she told me candidly
that what she wants is a discrete and intimate meeting
once/month. She's no longer looking for a relationship
(her hubby died 8 years ago), but misses sex.
So
there you have it. We went back to her condo. We were
both a bit nervous, because it felt contrived...like
I was a sperm donor or something. She felt nervous,
too, so she advised that we just talk for awhile.
She
poured us each a glass of wine, and she put on Paul
Simon (why do so many women LOVE Paul Simon?). I loosened
up, now that the pressure was gone. We had a second
glass of wine, and by this time we were both comfortable...we
were laughing and talking about work and the stupid
election (of course).
Somebody
had to break the ice, so I did. When you have to break
the ice, I recommend offering a massage.
I
simply said, "look, I think we should progress
slowly, so why don't you get comfortable and I'll
just give you a massage?"
She
was relieved that I said that. She layed down on the
floor and I got on top of her and began massaging
her.
My
hands slowly wandered around more and more, and finally
I asked her to flip over. I massaged her front, and
before long I had my hands on her breasts. It was
a trip to think that this 57 year old whose breasts
I was fondling had photos of her grown kids on the
mantle!
I
have never had sex with someone my mom's age, and
it was a great experience. Her body wasn't fantastic,
but I really get a thrill out of having sex with new
people.
So
I'll be seeing her next month, but in the meantime
I have a "date" with a younger Asian women
in East Bay next week. I'll report back on that when
it happens.
Remember,
you can sign up for free with limited views (and keep
signing up with different e-mail addresses), or just
pay the $33.95 for 3 months (it is worth it, hey,
I'm going on my second date next week. It's like shooting
fish in a barrel!) The last thing to mention is that
I've heard of other services like this and with bayescort's
"R&D" money, I'll check those out too!!
Adult
Friend Finder
PS...Let
me know how it worked for you...we'll trade stories
and I'll publish your tips!
webmaster@bayescort.com
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